Add consistent API request logging and a themed 404 page, bump to 0.4.0

Every app/api route handler now goes through withRouteLogging, which logs
a correlated reqId/method/path/status/duration for each request and turns
any uncaught error into a logged stack trace plus a clean JSON 500 instead
of Next's default opaque failure. proxy.ts logs rejected auth attempts, and
instrumentation.ts's onRequestError catches anything that still escapes a
route handler. Also adds a minimal not-found page matching the app's card
styling.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Sonnet 5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

package.json

@@ -1,6 +1,6 @@
 {
   "name": "sexy",
-  "version": "0.3.0",
+  "version": "0.4.0",
   "private": true,
   "scripts": {
     "dev": "next dev",