feat: add Tandoor recipe manager to infrastructure

Added Tandoor Recipes as a comprehensive recipe management solution:

**Tandoor Stack** (tandoor.pivoine.art):
- Modern recipe manager with smart scaling and collaboration
- PostgreSQL backend for recipe persistence
- Email notifications via IONOS SMTP
- Static and media file storage in dedicated volumes
- User signups disabled (admin-only access)

**Features:**
- Smart recipe scaling (auto-adjust ingredients for servings)
- Spaces for collaboration (family/roommate recipe sharing)
- Meal planning and shopping lists
- Recipe import from URLs
- Mobile app support (Kitshn app)
- Nutritional information and pricing

**Infrastructure updates:**
- Added tandoor database to PostgreSQL init script
- Added environment variables to arty.yml
- Updated compose.yaml include list
- Added Tandoor volumes (staticfiles, mediafiles) to Restic backup
- Configured email notifications for invitations and notifications

**Tech stack:**
- Django/Python backend
- Vue.js frontend
- PostgreSQL database (shared core instance)
- Gunicorn WSGI server

Tandoor provides superior UX compared to Mealie with better recipe
scaling, collaboration features, and mobile app experience.

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Co-Authored-By: Claude <noreply@anthropic.com>

compose.yaml

@@ -4,6 +4,7 @@ include:
   - awsm/compose.yaml
   - sexy/compose.yaml
   - mattermost/compose.yaml
+  - tandoor/compose.yaml
   - scrapy/compose.yaml
   - n8n/compose.yaml
   - stash/compose.yaml